My ex is online dating already
I forgave him because I loved him and had already given up everything for him.
We were going to get married next year but did much sooner because I got pregnant. It was all the same stuff as before and I should have known. He lied about that, too, and literally everything else. He kicked me out while I was pregnant after a huge fight.
He seemed to be having a lot of issues, a lot of which he started to take out on me. I came up with ways to fix this communication breakdown, which we both agreed were working. He said he loves me and wants to be with me he just doesn't know if he can anymore.
He couldn't seem to get over little things, or took a long time to recover at least.
And if you were him and saw that I had one now too how would you feel? Only make an online profile for the purposes of seriously finding someone. I cried and told him how much I love him and that it didn't have to be this way.
He seemed so concerned with his needs not being met, yet previously he had told me I was the only person who's ever been able to meet his needs physically, mentally, and emotionally (when things were good anyway).
My needs were not being met at that point either but I was still trying to make him happy and I overlooked a lot because I love him so much.
I am going through exactly what you described and this is why I am reaching out to you. I hope you get this message girl and hope your heart has healed...
Wow this is my exact problem at the moment..glad I dont feel alone in this...bf and i dated for 2.5 years...We each dated another person in between for a few months each. He took a job a thousand miles away and asked me to come out. the first day there he said he made a mistake with me and it was the biggest regret of his life and asked me to marry him. I went home and left my career and everything in my life and packed up my things and gave a long notice at work, to go be with him because he was the love of my life, so I thought.